HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A FRIEND
INTRODUCTION: Just like romantic relationships friendships don't always last forever. Sometimes breaking up with a friend is actually worst then breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend because you have really grew a really tight bond with your friend like they become family and then things change and its like the last thing to do is to just let them go. If you want to break up with your friend(s) properly read the following tips:
STEP 1: KNOW WHEN ITS TIME
Just because you and your friend had a disagreement or are currently not speaking doesn't mean that you should just break your friendship with him/her up. Make sure it is honestly what you want to do. You should actually try to sit down and work things out with him/her first unless they did something absolutely terrible to you then you should just drop them quickly with out a explanation and all.
Step 2:ADDRESS THE ISSUE
Honestly losing a friend isn't easy on either sides. If your the one ending the friendship or the one being cut off you both need a full understanding of why you to will no longer be friends. It is good to talk about it before you actually cut them off because you don't want to lose your long time friend over a rumor or something petty.
Step 3: TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE
Losing a friend ain't easy especially when y'all have a great bound, your actually going to be said for a while but you can easily get over that. Go out meet new friends if your lonely or some people might rather to just be alone because they don't want to be around people just yet which is also fine. Basically just chill and make your self happy for a little while so you wont blame yourself for any of the things that happened
Step 4: HAVE A REACTION PLAN
Plan on how you are going to act just incase you see your ex friend in public. You don't want to be awkward a simple hi & bye will do it or just don't speak at all.
In Conclusion, breaking up with a friend is never just a easy thing to do. It will affect you after, during and even before you decide to cut him/her off. Make sure whatever got in between yall is something serious because you don't want to regret cutting that person off and not being able to get them back. Friendship is the best but not all people deserve your friendship only you can decide who does and who does not.
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