Thursday, May 21, 2015

9 Signs Of A Genuine Friend

             DO YOU HAVE A GENUINE FRIENDSHIP?

Introduction: Having a genuine friend is a must because the point of having a friend is to have somebody that is always there for you and somebody that you can trust. A genuine friend is a friend that is real & honest. Acquaintances is more like a person you just talk to like just a school friend, someone you wont rely on or tell your business to. After reading these signs of a genuine friendship you can decide if you have one or not.

1.They push us to be more accepting of ourselves
2.They call us out when we're in the wrong
3. They're present
4.They really listen
5.They support us
6.They keep us humble
7.They have our backs
8.They forgive you when your wrong
9.They make us want to be better people

Conclusion:  Most of us have many acquaintances, but a true friendship? someone who is always there in good and bad times is rare. So if you have this treasure it.

HOW TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS

            6 Ways To Make New Friends

Introduction - Having friends is just a part of growing up to be honest. Everybody should have at least one friend they can rely on. If you are having trouble with meeting new friends here are some steps you can read & follow to meet lots of people:

Step 1 - Spend more time around people. Make sure your not mean because nobody wants to hang out with mean people. You should put yourself out there so you can meet people. For example hang out after school at new places or sit at a new lunch table.

Step 2 - Join a sports team. Being around your teammates all day it is impossible that you wont make at least one friend. Eventually you will start to bound with somebody & that should be a great friendship because you already have a common interest.

Step 3 -Actually talk to people. You can join a team, club, new lunch table but you still wont meet any friends if you don't actually talk to people. Speak up once you start to see familiar faces.

Step 4 - Make eye contact & smile. If you look friendly then people would speak to you. Looking away & down and not akin eye contact just screams "don't talk to me".

Step 5 - Make a good first impression. This will make them want to keep speaking to you and this can and should start a great friendship.

Step 6 - Be loyal to your friend. Part of being a friend is being prepared to make sacrifices of your time and energy in order to help out your friends. even if its something stupid you should just always be there for your friend.

Conclusion - These are very easy steps to follow to have someone new in your life that can potentially turn into your best friend or somebody that you really love & is gonna need for a long time

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

How To Help A Friend Who Is Depressed

                Tips To Help Out A Depressed Friend


When you have a depression, it interferes with daily life and causes pain for both you and those who care about you. Depression is feelings of severe sadness & dejection.

  1.                              TIPS:
  2. 1. Find out why your friend is depressed
2. Don't joke around with them

3. Listen to them & be there for them

4. Try to understand them

5. Advise them to seek professional help

In Conclusion, If your friend is feeling down/blue you should make it your job to be there for them telling them that everything will be ok & that you will be there every step of the way.


 

How To Break With A Friend

                  HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A FRIEND



INTRODUCTION: Just like romantic relationships friendships don't always last forever. Sometimes breaking up with a friend is actually worst then breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend because you have really grew a really tight bond with your friend like they become family and then things change and its like the last thing to do is to just let them go. If you want to break up with your friend(s) properly read the following tips:

STEP 1: KNOW WHEN ITS TIME
Just because you and your friend had a disagreement or are currently not speaking doesn't mean that you should just break your friendship with him/her up. Make sure it is honestly what you want to do. You should actually try to sit down and work things out with him/her first unless they did something absolutely terrible to you then you should just drop them quickly with out a explanation and all.

Step 2:ADDRESS THE ISSUE
Honestly losing a friend isn't easy on either sides. If your the one ending the friendship or the one being cut off you both need a full understanding of why you to will no longer be friends. It is good to talk about it before you actually cut them off because you don't want to lose your long time friend over a rumor or something petty.

Step 3: TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE
Losing a friend ain't easy especially when y'all have a great bound, your actually going to be said for a while but you can easily get over that. Go out meet new friends if your lonely or some people might rather to just be alone because they don't want to be around people just yet which is also fine. Basically just chill and make your self happy for a little while so you wont blame yourself for any of the things that happened

Step 4: HAVE A REACTION PLAN
Plan on how you are going to act just incase you see your ex friend in public. You don't want to be awkward a simple hi & bye will do it or just don't speak at all.

In Conclusion, breaking up with a friend is never just a easy thing to do. It will affect you after, during and even before you decide to cut him/her off. Make sure whatever got in between yall is something serious because you don't want to regret cutting that person off and not being able to get them back. Friendship is the best but not all people deserve your friendship only you can decide who does and who does not.

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Four Tips To Maintain A Healthy Friendship

Tips For A Friendship

INTRODUCTION:
Do you have lots of friends ? well then you know that it takes a lot to maintain friendships Its not just all jokes fun & games you also have bad times, But if you really love your friend you are willing to get through all the bad `1`times just to have good times. It is pretty easy to maintain Just read these tips and follow them & you & your friends should do just fine.

Tip 1: BE YOURSELF! Sometimes when people get into a friendship they let their group of friends influence them and they start acting different. Following people is not a good friendship at all. You will start to do things you don't want to just to impress your friends and that could lead you to a lot of trouble. If they are really your friends they would want you to be comfortable enough to speak out and say when you don't agree with something.

Tip 2: DEFEND YOUR FRIENDS! There is always a point in time when someone your not that close with doesn't like one of your friends and as a good friend you should not sit there and just let them talk about your friend. If your friend is not around or she's shy or scared to speak up for her self do it for him/her. Don't make it a huge problem but at least make sure they respect your friend around you.

Tip 3: DON'T DATE YOUR FRIENDS EXS! No matter how much your friends says they don't care, they don't like them anymore never do it. Its just a sign of respect to be honest because even if your friend doesn't like that person anymore they still will feel a way about you dating somebody they once liked or loved and that can really mess up a friendship . This tip should actually be more of a rule of friendship!

Tip 4: ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOUR FRIENDS! You should always want to listen to your friends problems so you can give them the best advice you know. You should make your available to them on a daily basis because you care for them and want them to make the best decision for themselves and so that they can do the same for you.
CONCLUSION:
These are four easy steps to have a great fun & healthy friendship enjoy :)