Thursday, June 4, 2015

How well do you know your bestfriend?

So if you have a best friend you probably feel as if you knew them for forever and that if anyone had asked you a question you can answer anything about them but do you really know your best friend? Here is a list of questions if you can answer every single one correctly then congrats you know your bff.

QUESTIONS:
  1. When and how did we first meet?
  2. Who is your best friend's hero?
  3. If your best friend could go any place on earth, where would it be and why?
  4. What is your best friends favorite color?
  5. What is your best friends favorite food?
  6. What is the name of your best friend’s crush?
  7. What is your best friend’s biggest fear?
  8. If your best friend were deserted on an island, what are the three things she/he could not live without?
  9. What three movies does your best friend love the most?
  10. What part of your best friend’s body is their favorite?
  11. Where does your best friend live?
  12. How would you describe your best friend’s ideal partner/spouse?
  13. How long does it take your best friend to get dressed?
  14. Which is your best friend’s favorite season and why?
  15. What is your best friend’s dream job?
  16. If you were out together, what would your best friend eat?
  17. What do you most admire about your best friend?
  18. If your best friend were to wear a shirt/blouse or a Tee, which would it be?
  19. What are the three items your best friend always carries with them?
  20. What's your best friend’s favorite TV show?
  21. Would your best friend watch a chick-flick, action, comedy or a horror movie?
  22. What is your favorite inside joke?
  23. What favorite memory do you two share?
  24. What is the one thing that annoys you most about your best friend?
  25. Between the two of you, who takes longer to get ready?
  26. If your best friend could meet anyone at that time, who would it be?
  27. Does your best friend have any strange phobias?
  28. Does your best friend like loud music or music that is at a much reasonable level?
  29. What does your best friend think about the most?
  30. What is the last book your best friend read?
  31. Does your best friend have any nicknames?
  32. If the whole world were listening to your best friend, what would your best friend say?
  33. What picture does your best friend currently have?
  34. What concerts has your best friend been to?
  35. Has your best friend ever voted in a presidential election?
  36. What is the one thing your best friend would want for their birthday?
  37. What is your best friend’s greatest achievement?
  38. What is your best friend really bad at?
  39. What is the meanest thing someone has ever said to your best friend?
  40. If your best friend has a scar, how did they get it?
  41. Is your best friend afraid of the dark?
  42. What would your best friend do if they won the lottery?
  43. Was your best friend named after anyone? If so, who?
  44. What was your best friend’s favorite show as a child?
  45. Where does your best friend want to live when they get older?
  46. Has your best friend ever had surgery?
  47. How many children does your best friend want and what will be their names?
  48. Has your best friend ever been outside the country?
  49. Is your best friend a spendthrift, or do they like to save their money?
  50. What is your best friend’s favorite animal? 
  51. Which game does your best friend like most?
  52. Can you describe your best friend in one word?
  53. Does your best friend sing in the shower?
  54. What's your best friend's favorite kind of sandwich?
  55. Is your best friend allergic to anything? 

Fun Things To Do With Friend Without Spending Much

Don't have that much money and want to have fun with your friends? Here's 10's cheap things you can do and still have fun

1. Host a spa day: Chill in one house with your friends ya'll can do manicures, pedicures, face mask, massages etc.

2. Movie Marathon: Hook up Netflix and just spend the day chilling eating popcorn & watching lots of movies

3. Go to the park: The park is free and fun yall could chill and play around

4. Play board games: This is especially fun with competitive friends

5. Go to the mall: Buy a few things take some pics and get some food

6. Listen to music : Blast good songs with your friends and dance and joke around

7. Go to a cheap restaurant: Places like chipotle, apples bees, shake shack etc

8. Walk around: Walking around in a popular area with your friends should be tons of fun

9. Play dress up

10. Have a water fight

Diffrent Types Of Friends

Everybody has friends but not all friends are the same. Different friends have different qualities. Some friends might want to see you do good in life, others will help you and the not so good friends don't care if you make it or not. Read this article and see if you can find the different types of friends you have:

THE FLOP:
This type of friend is a good friend but can be a bit irresponsible when it comes to keeping track of your plans. You make plans with them all the time but when its time to actually do the things the always "Flop" or don't show up because they either forgot or had more important things to do. This can get frustrating sometimes and eventually you are going to want to stop making plans with the person but for this problem I suggest you make plans where it don't really matter where they show up for example the nail salon, you can always just get you nails done by yourself or just invite lots of friends because at least one is bound to make it.

THE GOSSIPER:
This type of friend can be very annoying because you cant even tell them a secret without others finding out. You can still have a positive relationship with a person that's always telling your or others secrets though. Just remember not every friend you have is going to know all your secrets. Some friends its better to just joke and laugh with others you can tell your secrets to. This person can also be known as "The Human Twitter" you can use them when you want a lot of people to know about something for example a party.

THE USER:
This type of friend is not really a friend you would like to be around a lot because they always ask you for something whether it is a ride or the homework to copy off. This friend is just using you to help themselves out. If you notice you have a "friend" like this when they start to ask you for something just say no. If they start to act different and get mad then they are just using you there is no friendship there and you should just let them go. But if they respect your decision then maybe you should say no more often then they will realize to stop asking you for everything. This doesn't have to mess up your friendship if you both are mature and really love each other.

THE QUIET ONE:
This type of friend is very quiet and always keep their feelings bottled up. This can be a bad thing because you honestly wont know how they feel about certain stuff. But it is important that you talk to them and make them feel as comfortable as you can. Hopefully after that they will start to open up and start speaking on more of how they feel.

THE DRAMATIC ONE:
This type of friend loves drama and to gossip. Tat can be annoying to be around after awhile because they are always in somebody else's business. I mean everybody gets in to drama every once in a while but a person who is constantly...Who honestly wants to be around that all day? I know I don't
this isn't the worst type of friend though at least they are not a downer and they keep stuff interesting with you. To help your friend don't cut them off just keep the gossiping between you guys to a minimum and don't indulge in her shady behavior.

Not all friends are like the types above. Although a lot are some are different. You have funny ones, chill ones, smart ones, ones you can tell everything to etc. Which one are you?

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

How to help a friend get over a break up

 

 Break ups are really tough, And are very hard to go through. But can be easier if you have a friend to go through it with. Being there for your friend and supporting them will help them a lot honestly. So if your friend is going through a break up here are some things you can do to help them.

1. You need to listen to how they feel about everything & don't judge them

2. Be patient it might take a long tie for your friend to get over the person so don't get frustrated.

3. Distract your friend, take them out and have fun to get the break up off there mind for a little while

4.  Make them laugh every chance you get. Put  a  smile on their face.

5. Don't force them to tell you what happened. They will tell you when they're ready
 

6. Give them time to themselves if they need/want it, they may have to clear their head

7. Let them know that you're there for them; that little thing can mean the world to them at a time like this

These tips above can really help your friend to get over there ex. These steps and quick and easy but they take time. Don't be inconsiderate because the break up is not yours. The problem is way deeper then what you are thinking or expect so just be there for them when you can and try to help them move on.

How to tell your guy friend you like him

Your friends with him for a long time then oops :( you fall for him. You get jealous every time he talks to another girl, what do you do? Do you take a risk and tell him or do you continue to hide your love? Telling him could be very scary but not telling him will haunt you. Take a risk and tell him but here are some tips on how to:

Step 1: Make sure he doesn't like anybody else first.

Step 2: Send him secret little notes so he knows that someone he knows likes him

Step 3: Send him signals. For example you can spend lots of time with him and takes tons of pictures with him.

Step 4: Find a spot to be alone with him and tell him.

Step 5: Let him know that if he doesn't like you back its ok and you wont be  awkward about it.

These are short steps but they are very difficult to do. Telling your friend you like him can possibly mess up the friendship if he feels awkward about everything but you cant help who you like sometimes. Spending time with somebody s much can often cause you to like them because yall start to bond and vibe then you'll start to see him as just a friend. If you like somebody no matter who it is tell them so you wont be confused thinking they are sending you mixed signals and so you can just know the truth and know weather to move on or not.

Thursday, May 21, 2015

9 Signs Of A Genuine Friend

             DO YOU HAVE A GENUINE FRIENDSHIP?

Introduction: Having a genuine friend is a must because the point of having a friend is to have somebody that is always there for you and somebody that you can trust. A genuine friend is a friend that is real & honest. Acquaintances is more like a person you just talk to like just a school friend, someone you wont rely on or tell your business to. After reading these signs of a genuine friendship you can decide if you have one or not.

1.They push us to be more accepting of ourselves
2.They call us out when we're in the wrong
3. They're present
4.They really listen
5.They support us
6.They keep us humble
7.They have our backs
8.They forgive you when your wrong
9.They make us want to be better people

Conclusion:  Most of us have many acquaintances, but a true friendship? someone who is always there in good and bad times is rare. So if you have this treasure it.

HOW TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS

            6 Ways To Make New Friends

Introduction - Having friends is just a part of growing up to be honest. Everybody should have at least one friend they can rely on. If you are having trouble with meeting new friends here are some steps you can read & follow to meet lots of people:

Step 1 - Spend more time around people. Make sure your not mean because nobody wants to hang out with mean people. You should put yourself out there so you can meet people. For example hang out after school at new places or sit at a new lunch table.

Step 2 - Join a sports team. Being around your teammates all day it is impossible that you wont make at least one friend. Eventually you will start to bound with somebody & that should be a great friendship because you already have a common interest.

Step 3 -Actually talk to people. You can join a team, club, new lunch table but you still wont meet any friends if you don't actually talk to people. Speak up once you start to see familiar faces.

Step 4 - Make eye contact & smile. If you look friendly then people would speak to you. Looking away & down and not akin eye contact just screams "don't talk to me".

Step 5 - Make a good first impression. This will make them want to keep speaking to you and this can and should start a great friendship.

Step 6 - Be loyal to your friend. Part of being a friend is being prepared to make sacrifices of your time and energy in order to help out your friends. even if its something stupid you should just always be there for your friend.

Conclusion - These are very easy steps to follow to have someone new in your life that can potentially turn into your best friend or somebody that you really love & is gonna need for a long time

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

How To Help A Friend Who Is Depressed

                Tips To Help Out A Depressed Friend


When you have a depression, it interferes with daily life and causes pain for both you and those who care about you. Depression is feelings of severe sadness & dejection.

  1.                              TIPS:
  2. 1. Find out why your friend is depressed
2. Don't joke around with them

3. Listen to them & be there for them

4. Try to understand them

5. Advise them to seek professional help

In Conclusion, If your friend is feeling down/blue you should make it your job to be there for them telling them that everything will be ok & that you will be there every step of the way.


 

How To Break With A Friend

                  HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A FRIEND



INTRODUCTION: Just like romantic relationships friendships don't always last forever. Sometimes breaking up with a friend is actually worst then breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend because you have really grew a really tight bond with your friend like they become family and then things change and its like the last thing to do is to just let them go. If you want to break up with your friend(s) properly read the following tips:

STEP 1: KNOW WHEN ITS TIME
Just because you and your friend had a disagreement or are currently not speaking doesn't mean that you should just break your friendship with him/her up. Make sure it is honestly what you want to do. You should actually try to sit down and work things out with him/her first unless they did something absolutely terrible to you then you should just drop them quickly with out a explanation and all.

Step 2:ADDRESS THE ISSUE
Honestly losing a friend isn't easy on either sides. If your the one ending the friendship or the one being cut off you both need a full understanding of why you to will no longer be friends. It is good to talk about it before you actually cut them off because you don't want to lose your long time friend over a rumor or something petty.

Step 3: TAKE TIME TO GRIEVE
Losing a friend ain't easy especially when y'all have a great bound, your actually going to be said for a while but you can easily get over that. Go out meet new friends if your lonely or some people might rather to just be alone because they don't want to be around people just yet which is also fine. Basically just chill and make your self happy for a little while so you wont blame yourself for any of the things that happened

Step 4: HAVE A REACTION PLAN
Plan on how you are going to act just incase you see your ex friend in public. You don't want to be awkward a simple hi & bye will do it or just don't speak at all.

In Conclusion, breaking up with a friend is never just a easy thing to do. It will affect you after, during and even before you decide to cut him/her off. Make sure whatever got in between yall is something serious because you don't want to regret cutting that person off and not being able to get them back. Friendship is the best but not all people deserve your friendship only you can decide who does and who does not.

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Four Tips To Maintain A Healthy Friendship

Tips For A Friendship

INTRODUCTION:
Do you have lots of friends ? well then you know that it takes a lot to maintain friendships Its not just all jokes fun & games you also have bad times, But if you really love your friend you are willing to get through all the bad `1`times just to have good times. It is pretty easy to maintain Just read these tips and follow them & you & your friends should do just fine.

Tip 1: BE YOURSELF! Sometimes when people get into a friendship they let their group of friends influence them and they start acting different. Following people is not a good friendship at all. You will start to do things you don't want to just to impress your friends and that could lead you to a lot of trouble. If they are really your friends they would want you to be comfortable enough to speak out and say when you don't agree with something.

Tip 2: DEFEND YOUR FRIENDS! There is always a point in time when someone your not that close with doesn't like one of your friends and as a good friend you should not sit there and just let them talk about your friend. If your friend is not around or she's shy or scared to speak up for her self do it for him/her. Don't make it a huge problem but at least make sure they respect your friend around you.

Tip 3: DON'T DATE YOUR FRIENDS EXS! No matter how much your friends says they don't care, they don't like them anymore never do it. Its just a sign of respect to be honest because even if your friend doesn't like that person anymore they still will feel a way about you dating somebody they once liked or loved and that can really mess up a friendship . This tip should actually be more of a rule of friendship!

Tip 4: ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOUR FRIENDS! You should always want to listen to your friends problems so you can give them the best advice you know. You should make your available to them on a daily basis because you care for them and want them to make the best decision for themselves and so that they can do the same for you.
CONCLUSION:
These are four easy steps to have a great fun & healthy friendship enjoy :)